6 Household Items You Can Stop Spending Money On Right Now

Every month I get a delivery from Amazon of stuff I need to reorder. Every month. One month it occurred to me: Do I really need all this disposable stuff? The answer is easy. No. So I found easy, eco friendly substitutions for almost all of the items, and started saving upwards of $100 a month.

Every little step we take trying to be more frugal, and to throw fewer things away, ultimately saves us money and helps the environment just a little bit. It’s a matter of changing our minds, our habits, and teaching our children to do the same.

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Here are the items I dropped from my monthly purchase list and what I replaced them with (most replacements are a one time purchase):

1) Dryer Sheets- $5.98 a month

Replace with wool dryer balls and essential oils.  That’s a one time purchase of like eight bucks for the dryer balls, and you can stop buying boxes of dryer sheets.  Less packaging waste, cardboard, money saved!  Plus I get to use all those essential oils I bought and haven’t used, so now I’m in there mixing scents like a boss. Boom.

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Wool dryer balls and essential oils replace disposable dryer sheets like a dream

Speaking of essential oils, we also stopped buying plug-in scents, because we already have the essential oils and diffusers.  Free up your outlets and get a healthier option with WAY less waste and cost by using an essential oils diffuser/humidifier.

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Lighted diffuser/humidifier replaces disposable plug in scents

2) Paper towels (or drastically reduce their use)- $38.84 a month (big families use a lot of these!!!)

At the dining table: Replace with cloth napkins.  Dude, you’re doing laundry, anyway.  My laundry is always moving, so throwing these in with an existing load costs you nothing (plus, my kids think we’re all fancy now eating with cloth napkins at dinner). They’re inexpensive and hold up well to frequent washing.  I went with black for everyday use to best hide stains.

For kitchen clean-up: Replace with bar towels.  I get that there are some things you don’t want to put into your washing machine.  I’m not cleaning up dog mess or cat vomit with these, but I figured out that most messes I was using paper towels to clean up, I could totally use bar towels (and they can be washed quickly with existing loads just like the cloth napkins).  These are rough, inexpensive flour sack towels and I love them.

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White flour sack towels for kitchen clean up

3) Ziploc bags $9.48 a month, gallon size $19.20 a month

Left-overs and refridgerator items: Replace with Glass Pyrex Containers.  I have two sets of these and they are one of my favorite things in the kitchen.  YOU DON’T NEED THOSE BAGGIES!  (I cringe thinking of how many baggies I’ve used over the years that should’ve gone into a covered glass container).  I love that all my little leftovers are super easy to see and they stack nicely in the fridge.  I also send them to work with Rainman and the containers don’t get ruined by spaghetti sauce because they’re glass.

For pantry storage (dried goods) I use salvaged (re-used) jars.

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My temporary pantry with Anchor Hocking Jars for large storage and upcycled jars for dried goods

For freezer bags: Replace with reusable silicone bags or other containers.  It doesn’t take any more effort to use these for pre-prepped freezer meals, and it’s so worth it.  And I don’t have to buy the disposable bags anymore.  This was one of the things I worried about MOST with transitioning away from baggies: RE-storing my meat, premade meals, soups, etc in the freezer, but they work GREAT, and seal well also.  The baggy below is the medium sized silicone bag with frozen tomoto soup stored in it. I have never had a leak and they are top rack dishwasher safe.

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Re-usable silicone bags for freezer and fridge storage

Below is a collection of my jars ready to hold odds and ends that would normally go in plastic baggies.  We use them for everything from chocolate chips, to nuts, to leftover sauces.

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Up-cycled jars for pantry dried goods

4) Plastic bags for your produce at the grocery store and grocery shopping bags

These are the WORST!  They can’t be recycled!  Replace with green produce bags, you can bring them to the store with you to get your produce: win, win. They really, for real make your produce last longer. That saves you even more money.  And you don’t have to throw those non-recyclable produce bags in the trash.

Disposable bags are easily replaced with buying Reusable Grocery Bags one time (many areas are banning single use plastic bags altogether).  These are inexpensive, washable, and foldable so they store nicely.

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Green produce bags REALLY work

5) Disposable Spaghetti Sauce Containers

Replace with Classico Sauces… But, dude. Did you know that Classico Sauces are intentionally made in reusable containers? It is actually our favorite sauce anyway, but I keep all of the containers and use them for storing nuts, etc. Why buy containers when these are basically free?  After we use them, I soak the label off, run them through the dishwasher, and voila, free storage container.  By the way, this is one of the items that I buy in Prime Pantry that is quite a bit cheaper than my local grocery store.

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Re-usable Classico Jars

In other news, my son just got home from school and busted me taking pictures of spaghetti sauce.

By the way, I definitely think that re-claimed glass jars make for Pinterest-worthy pantries and they’re FREE.

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One of the most important parts of the DIY process for us is trying to find ways to reuse items and make our home as self-sustaining as possible.  It’s a long journey but I’m happy to share so we can work toward helping our wallets and our planet!

For more on where to find free jars and the best oversized pantry jars for all your dried goods, check out our post on The Best Upcycled and New Jars For Your Farmhouse Pantry!

As a bonus to helping out your wallet, one of the most important steps in reducing your household waste (less carbon going to the landfill), is composting.  My compost container sits right in front of my chopping board, and it gets emptied into it’s bigger partner that lives outside when it’s full. And what do I get? Free fertilizer!  This one is super cool because it has charcoal filters that prevent the smell from escaping, which is fairly important.

6 Household Items You Can Stop Spending Money On Right Now
6 Household Items You Can Stop Spending Money On Right Now

I have two of these, different brands, but I’m pretty sure they’re all the same manufacturer:

And the big compost bin for outside (I like mine enclosed so it doesn’t stink up the backyard but a bin that you stir occasionally works just as well):

 

Cheers to taking steps toward saving money and creating a sustainable household! Check out more of our DIY, project, and inspiration posts over on our blog.  Cheers!

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RH Restoration Hardware 19th C. Rococo Iron & Crystal Round Chandelier Product Review

Did you notice that it’s super hard to find reviews on RH light fixtures (or anything else Restoration Hardware sells)? I have to tell you, I was a little afraid… the shroud of secrecy surrounding the quality of the items, and lack of happy customer (or any) reviews, left me feeling a bit wary. So, I hope I can shed a little light on my RH “experience” and provide an honest review (I still have fear about a hypothetical RH strong arm guy coming to bust my knee caps, but here goes…): oh, by the way. I’m not an affiliate. I think their snobbery prevents affiliatery (dude, that’s not a word, I just made it up), so you can be sure of my unadulterated, completely honest opinion.

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First, let’s be totally up front. Restoration Hardware’s marketing team and strategy are second to none. They are selling class. Period. It’s unbelievably brilliant and diabolically well executed. Every purchase says: welcome to the champagne life. But, is it true? Are their products that much better?

I’ve had my eye on a light fixture at RH for a while. I visited it at night on their website, shielding my iPad just in case Rainman was just pretending to be asleep and really wanted to know what I was cyber stalking.  Several times I almost caved and bought a knock off (everything that was similar had a lot of chrome, which was too glammy), but I stayed strong and finally bit the bullet. Enter the 19th century rococo chandelier in smoke into my life. It was the perfect piece to complete a recent adult living renovation and I just couldn’t say no.

RH Restoration Hardware 19th C. Rococo Iron & Crystal Round Chandelier Product Review

As we have been busy on a MAJOR DIY deck addition, the box sat unattended for several weeks before my Rainman discovered me looking sad one night and rolled up his sleeves. What we thought would be a simple installation was not quite, but I’ll tell you all about it.

RH Restoration Hardware 19th C. Rococo Iron & Crystal Round Chandelier Product Review

But, first, back to that deck renovation.  So, the deck needed to go in before child-next graduated from high school so there was an appropriately awesome place for his friends to hang out, not inside with all of the boring adults (and no one sued us when they fell through the old, rotting deck).  Surprise, surprise, as we were peeling back siding to install the ledger board, Rainman and my father in law discovered rot.  It went halfway up the back wall and surrounded the door.

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This was the same door that eventually I wanted to close in anyway, and was going to have a kitchen cabinet behind it, because we would also rip out windows and install custom steel doors instead.  Nevermind that this other renovation was nowhere near ready to start, financially or otherwise, I was like, “fill it in.”  We’re already doing this, and I’d rather not install a new door that we’re going to take out and close in later.  And, as anyone knows who has DIYed a kitchen reno, there’s no time like the present to start it, and no time like right before you sell the house to finish it!  Needless to say, I was a bully, and Rainman was not happy.

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Well, I couldn’t leave the blank wall without a cabinet.  And if you’re going to get the cabinet you might as well get the matching one for the base of the banquette island you planned.  And if you’re already paying the unlimited furniture delivery fee (which is unfortunately $399 in my area because I live out in the sticks), you might as well buy that fixture you’ve had your eye on.  It’s like I was saving us money already. (I feel like I’ve maybe been reading those “If You Give A Mouse A Cookie” books to the little one too much lately).

RH Restoration Hardware 19th C. Rococo Iron & Crystal Round Chandelier Product Review

So, I had my fixture.

RH Restoration Hardware 19th C. Rococo Iron & Crystal Round Chandelier Product Review

Rainman just wanted to make me happy, and generally, fixture hanging is a weekday evening type of deal.  Straightforward and satisfying.  Unless there are like 200 crystals that have to be individually attached.  But, it’s fine… it would be better if there were gloves but they’re not included (I still need to go back and get all of the fingerprints off the crystals). I ordered white cotton gloves from Amazon and they’re ready for me whenever I get to it (there was no way I was stopping progress to wait on gloves).

RH Restoration Hardware 19th C. Rococo Iron & Crystal Round Chandelier Product Review

So, the actual fixture installation was pretty straightforward (although the directions are a bit lacking). I believe the prevailing assumption is that anyone buying this is going to have a pro install it and not their own personal slave Rainman after work one evening, so I guess I get that the wiring diagrams weren’t totally great.  The real kicker was that the number of crystals doesn’t actually match the installation guide and you basically can’t get there from here.  But, it may be that it’s a matter of personal preference how you’d like the crystals to hang, I’m not totally sure.

RH Restoration Hardware 19th C. Rococo Iron & Crystal Round Chandelier Product Review

What I didn’t get from the product info before I received it (and you can’t see in their pictures) is that the body of the fixture is in matte iron – which sort of reminds me of industrial steel beams before they start rusting.  It’s beautiful, just not what I expected.  The black wrought iron seen in some of the pictures is only on the clear crystal option.  I love it just as much, I just figured it was worth noting since it wasn’t entirely apparent to me upfront.

RH Restoration Hardware 19th C. Rococo Iron & Crystal Round Chandelier Product Review

The verdict: (drumroll please) I would ABSOLUTELY recommend the fixture.  It’s gorgeous and dazzling (like, going to need a dimmer), it is the crown jewel in the living room that took it from nice to, OMG-where’d-you-get-that?  I love watching the light dance off of the beautiful smoke crystals in different patterns as the sun moves around the house during the day and the shadows it creates when the sun goes down.  It’s breathtaking.

Although we didn’t have any issues with this particular fixture, there were some blemishes on one of the cabinets.  I offered to have them send me replacement hardware, but as that was out of stock, they send a team to pick up the cabinet and bring me a whole new one.  No trouble, no fuss, no problem.  The customer service is fantastic, and their dedicated delivery teams are super professional and friendly.

Apparently they have some ludicrously good warranty on all of their stuff (which I honestly didn’t know when I hit “play” on the purchase), so even though the products are a bit *cough *cough on the pricey side, we’ll be buying from them again.  It’s well worth the extra money to have heirloom quality pieces.

Thanks for hanging out with us today and check out more of our DIY, projects, and decor on our blog.

Cheers!

 

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DIY Restoration Hardware Knock Off Velvet Curtains

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Restoration Hardware

Can you hear me laughing maniacally from there? I believe once I added in the shipping it was five hundred dollars from Restoration Hardware! For TWO luxuriously wonderful curtain panels. Yes, TWO. Not two sets. Two panels. ON SALE. I swallowed my insanity, put down my wine glass, closed the tab, and let reality sink in. Allow me a moment to get my blood pressure back down. Look, I admire Restoration Hardware’s whole seductive look they have going on, but I’m apparently in the wrong tax bracket to be shopping there. They’re CURTAINS. As in, fabric that adds privacy and style to windows. Not exactly life or death. So, I did what I do best: I found a way around their ridonculous pricing. But, first let’s bask in the sexy glory of Vintage Velvet Drapery for just a moment.

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Restoration Hardware

Luckily for us, Restoration Hardware likes to brag about their designers and suppliers. Woot! It ALSO turns out their velvet supplier, J.B. Martin, is available on Fabric.com and Amazon (let’s hear it for non-exclusive suppliers). And (even better) I have a mother that is awesome with a sewing machine. WIN.

I almost purchased the J.B. Martin Banker’s Gray Velvet on Amazon, but decided I wanted a darker gray. So, I found 54″ wide fabric instead J.B. Martin’s Velvet in Graphite, to EXACTLY match the curtains I couldn’t afford from RH, shipped them directly to her… And here they are… (DRUM ROLL, PLEASE)…

RH knock off, DIY Velvet Curtains with Pottery Barn Chesterfield Grand Sofa

So, we made two 96″X50″ exact duplicate panels for the jaw dropping low price of:

$169.05

We saved $330.95 off of retail RHs SALE price.

So, not cheap, but CHEAPER. And gorgeous. And happy me.

Here are some shots with fewer distractions:

RH knock off, DIY Velvet Curtains with Pottery Barn Chesterfield Grand Sofa
RH knock off, DIY Velvet Curtains with Pottery Barn Chesterfield Grand Sofa
RH knock off, DIY Velvet Curtains with Pottery Barn Chesterfield Grand Sofa
RH knock off, DIY Velvet Curtains with Pottery Barn Chesterfield Grand Sofa

Yaaaas!  I just love them!

Check out more of our awesomeness on our blog! Cheers!

 

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Customize Your IKEA Hack

IKEA hacks are all the rage, and with good reason. Pre-built, reasonably priced items that can be totally customized give me plenty of reasons to get on board. Can you say: factory finish?

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So, when it comes to the Hemnes line (Hemnes is IKEA’s real wood, upgraded line)- the hardware is a dead give away that you’re using IKEA shelves. Updating the hardware creates a HUGE impact for not very much money.

IKEA Hemnes cabinets with stock hardware

On our giant living room wall builtins IKEA hack, we used two sets of black Hemnes cabinets, each with three drawers and glass doors (please excuse our tardiness- they’re not finished). They were totally snooze-fest level with the existing hardware.

IKEA Hemnes cabinets with stock hardware

You can completely change the look and feel of the whole thing by finding hardware that speaks to you. At first I really wanted long, brass handles. However, 16″ hole separations on the drawers really limit non-custom options (the quotes I got on custom bars were in the $100 each range, and I needed six). So, I went back to the two pulls per drawer option and found something in the same family as what I wanted before.

IKEA Hemnes stock drawer hardware

I found these Antique Brass Bin Pulls pretty reasonably and the two Cast Brass Cupboard Latches for a total of $142, both from House of Antique Hardware.

House of Antique Hardware, bin pulls and cabinet latches

They made such a difference. Aren’t they just gorgeous?

House of Antique Hardware, bin pulls and cabinet latches

A few notes on installation: the pulls came with screws instead of two sided hardware. No way were we risking that accident-waiting-to-happen with our fifty kids, so I sent Rainman with one of the pulls down to the hardware store to hunt for a screw, washer, and nut that would work and go all the way through inside the drawer. Since we purchased them at Lowe’s our color options were limited. I haven’t decided whether I want to paint the hardware heads to match the pulls yet.

House of Antique hardware bin pulls

I originally intended to use one pre-drilled hole on each side but after we looked at the spacing we decided to straddle the existing holes and drill all new holes for each bin pull. They just looked better balanced.

The cabinet latches were a little more difficult because the pre drilled holes were too far back (toward the glass).

There is not a whole lot of wiggle room when installing these latches. I moved them down to a place I liked better visually and filled the old holes with a basic brushed brass Chicago screw. They have to go to the very edge to latch and the drilling has to be done very precisely.

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Here are the Chicago Screws we used to cover the existing hardware holes.

I would love to see different ways you customize your own IKEA hacks! Thanks for joining our adventures!

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Privacy Hedge in the Southeast: Arborvitae or Leyland Cyprus?

Two years ago, when we moved into our new place in Eastern North Carolina, we found one area of our yard that wasn’t hiding the neighbors quite well enough. Friends of ours are landscapers, so I asked them to come take a look and give us their honest opinion. The two most popular for our zone were the Arborvitae and Leyland Cyprus, so we had to choose between the two.

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I’m sure you’ve seen the Thuja Green Giant (Arborvitae) or Emerald Green (Arborvitae) in the nursery magazines you receive in the mail, as well as the Leyland Cypress. They’re all listed as “fast growing” trees and they’re fantastic as mature privacy hedges. They’re both relatively disease and drought tolerant and grow well in a variety of soils.

There were several mature Leyland Cypresses already, and they’re wider than the mature arborvitae, but I didn’t love the way they grow if they have neighboring trees encroaching. There were Leyland Cypresses EVERYWHERE in our neighborhood (sometimes, you can just look around and figure the neighbors might know what they’re doing, or at least the local landscapers). The Arborvitaes seemed to be more of what I had in mind.  Tall, slender, fast growing, and I liked the lighter green. But, the Cypresses seemed to be the PROVEN winner in the neighborhood.

So, which do you choose?

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Arborvitae Hedge, Emerald Green

We chose the Arborvitae, and I’m about to show you why you should, too.

I have one word for you: HURRICANES.

Not long ago, a strong Category One hurricane came through our area and wreaked havoc on everything including the trees. We went from being able to see one neighbor vaguely in the winter, to being able to see at least five. EVERY LELAND CYPRESS HEDGE in the neighborhood was destroyed by the hurricane. We took down the hedge between us and the neighbors (the trees were essentially laying on our driveway).  This is what the trees look like that we haven’t taken down yet in the backyard:

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Leyland Cyprus after the hurricane

Now, you might argue that the Leyland Cypresses were bigger and creating more drag (they are ABSOLUTELY wider and create more drag) but, neighbors with a mature Arborvitae hedge have the only hedge that survived the storm. I don’t know the mechanics, I just know that our young trees made it and so did the neighbors mature trees that were Arborvitaes.

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Arborvitae Hedge

I know that I haven’t yet seen an undamaged Leyland Cypress in our entire area.

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Damaged Leyland Cyprus after hurricane

Basically, if you live in a hurricane prone area, our experience has been that the Arborvitaes are more likely to survive than the Leyland Cypresses. We purchased some of them from the local landscaper and some from Brighter Blooms. The ones ordered in the mail always surprise me, because I’m initially disappointed, and then once they are planted they catch right back up.

Happy planting and thanks for joining us! Check out more of our adventures on our Blog!

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How To Preserve Roses

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How To Preserve Roses, Preserving Roses

I’m so excited. I got BEAUTIFUL roses for my birthday. I know we’ve all lied to our significant others at some point, and told them we didn’t like flowers, but if they were smart, they knew it was a lie and bought flowers anyway. Because there are significantly fewer tears that way.

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We won’t talk about that time that I cried like a little girl because, even though I had dropped copious hints, I didn’t get flowers for my birthday. We’re complicated creatures, women. Poor Rainman.

Yeah, I’m that girl. (If you are in the dog house, and need to buy flowers, this is a great service).

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How To Preserve Roses, Roses on the Sewing Machine Table

Ugh, they’re just gorgeous from every angle. But, I have a secret. These are in the process of “preserving”. Did you know that you can prevent those gorgeous roses from keeling over on you?

There are two really good methods for doing this and I’ll go through both!

Method One (best for roses that you want to use in arrangements later… more finicky than method two):

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How To Preserve Roses, Beautiful Roses for My Birthday

 

This is pre-preservation. I always love the arrangement from our local florist, although I don’t love their choice of cheapo vases. Even the “budget” line shouldn’t be a throw away. Anyhoo, when I get to the preserving phase, I’m really only interested in the roses. I love them at Christmas for their deep red and am looking forward to bringing them back out.

 

How to Preserve Roses
How to Preserve Roses: Red rose bouquet with preserving supplies: scissors, vegetable glycerin, and a hammer.

You really only need a couple of things to do this:

  • Your preserving vase (mine is an antique but I have these also, which are super cute and very reasonable)
  • Florist shears/ scissors (as you can see, I was using the poultry shears instead of going to get my nice florist shears which drives Rainman totally NUTS)

Fill your vase with about 1.5 – 2 inches of glycerin.

I start with the longer roses in the arrangement. Holding the vase next to the edge of the counter and the rose stem next to it, I eyeball where I want the cut. Snip! Take your little hammer and flatten the end of the stem. Roll it and flatten again. Mash it up so it opens up (this helps the glycerin get into the stem).

I do the center (long pieces) first, then fill in around the edge with the shorter stems. For mine, I remove all of the leaves and toss everything other than the roses.

Move them to a location out of the sun to start the preserving process.

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Preserving Roses: Red rose bouquet, beginning preservation.

I have to be honest: I adore how these are turning out. They will be gorgeous for my Christmas scenes. These can possibly last years if handled carefully and are such a better option than silk!

Tip: Make sure to add glycerin over several weeks until the stems stop absorbing, then dump out any excess (the glycerin will start gelling on the petals and getting goopy if you leave it).

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Preserving Roses: Preserved red rose bouquet ready to WOW.

 

Method 2 (My Favorite):

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

This is the PERFECT preserved roses in a hatbox method!

You’ll need:

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How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

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How To Preserve Roses

Step One: Snip off the leaves

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How To Preserve Roses

 

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

Step Two: measure how long to cut your roses!  Then cut them at that height at an angle (check your height by putting it in the box).

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

Step three: Remove the three outermost petals on your roses.

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

Step four: Put your roses into the bag and pour the silica beads over it. Gently shake it to completely cover and get it inside the petals. Once they are covered, put them into a cool dark place for about a week. (Don’t worry about using all of your silica, you can re-use it!)

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

Step Five: Once all of the petals are preserved, shake the silica off carefully, and place them gently into your hatbox. These can last more than a year if you preserve them correctly!

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

How To Preserve Roses
How To Preserve Roses

 

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DIY Custom White Board and Batten Wainscoting and Crown Molding

The beautiful thing about this particular renovation, is that our house flooded. Yes, I said the GOOD thing. Bear with me. Hang on. I’ll explain.

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Before

I’m so embarrassed. This is the living room before the flood:

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The poor living room in need of help (and at the bottom of the honey-do-list) before the flood.

We had lived in our old house for several years and, aside from the fact that we were packed in there like sardines, we didn’t have the time or energy to get to some of the upgrades on our ever-growing-wish-list. We have a STUFF problem. As in, we have too much of it. Without builtins, there was stuff everywhere, with no rhyme or reason, just looking cluttered and awful. For me, this creates stress, and no matter how clean the house was, I never felt settled.

So, then the clouds parted, and the rain came. Well, not actual rain. The hot water supply line under the master bedroom sink broke in the middle of the night (directly above the living room) and completely destroyed the living room and most of the contents.

The Flood

Imagine waking up in the middle of the night to a hot, steamy room. “Is the shower on?” Nope. No shower. But, I stepped down into ankle deep water to investigate, UPSTAIRS. Not good.

Wet living room ceiling from bathroom flood upstairs.

Wet living room ceiling from bathroom flood upstairs.

This offered up an opportunity for a few things, since we have fantastic homeowners insurance. I’d like to take a moment to give a shout out to my homies at USAA who made the insurance claims process painless. The contractors were so relieved when we said we had USAA. That was enough to solidify my belief in their awesomeness.

Demolition

The first thing that happened was the ripping out of the all of the sheetrock and flooring in the living room. Which made it look really weird. But, also awesome. Why? Two words: Popcorn ceilings. Even one room without those would be amazing and it was on my list of stuff to make happen.

Ceiling Sheetrock removed from living room ceiling.

A week and a half of industrial blowers and dehumidifiers later, the living room was dry and ready for REconstruction.

Wet Sheetrock removed.

Reconstruction

So, honestly, the hardest part of a renovation is getting started. My favorite way to kickstart the process is to walk into a room with a crowbar or a sledgehammer and start swinging. Then Rainman sighs, and says, “so, that’s the next project, then?” But, in this case, we HAD to do the renovation, because it flooded. YAY!

So, demolition complete, the living room was ready to start rebuilding. Keep in mind, I knew this was not our forever home, so I took some design chances I probably wouldn’t duplicate now.

Sheetrock

The crew came in and put in sheetrock (we paid an additional $250 to have the ceiling flat finished instead of popcorn which felt a lot like extortion, but it was worth it).

Roughed in Sheetrock, ready to be finished.

Tips: When we were “interviewing” contractors we asked if we could make changes to the insurance-approved punchlist after the fact to make sure they were on board. Many contractors will work with you, using the existing insurance payout, plus your add ons, to do upgrades. They will also give you credit for things you do yourself to help pay for some of the upgrades. Why not do upgrades when you have free labor? For instance, in order to put up the sheetrock the fan had to come down first. After the sheetrock was installed, the fan had to go back up. There was a $150 charge approved by the insurance company for an electrician to take it down, and another $150 to put it back up. Rainman installed the damn fan in the first place. We arranged to do that (and several other things) and applied the credit to the upgrades we were having done elsewhere.

This inspiration post is JUST for the wainscoting and molding, although we did install builtins, completely redo the fireplace and surround, and install beautiful flooring. I’ll cover the others separately.

Customizing

I painted my accent color first after Rainman drew me straight lines based upon where I pointed. That way I was sure I liked the height. I also wanted to make sure my awesome industrial airplane canvas fit where I wanted it mounted (I am notorious for prematurely hanging things on walls still under construction and dressing un-finished builtins).

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Roughing in paint before wainscoting and hanging the airplane art.

Designing the Board and Batten Layout

The artwork fit perfectly, so I was able to give him the go-ahead to draw out the grid for the boards. Now, here’s the customization part: depending on the scale of your space (we were dealing with standard eight foot ceiling height) you may want a tighter grid, or something more spaced out. You may want wider or thinner boards. We drew out our boards and I liked the look. We used 1″x6″ pine boards for a majority of the grid.

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Crown molding going up on one wall to make sure we like the width of the crown “stripe.” If you look closely, you can see the grid for the board and batten penciled in.

We tried really hard to avoid going over light switches or outlets, but we did hit a few. Because the outlet was in an area that would be covered, we just did a cut out for it. Ditto for the dual light switch.

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Board and batten grid going in. Before paint and finish work.

The grids were installed using finish nails, via a finish nailer and compressor. My husband got these Bostich nailers and compressor as a gift from his father like 15 years ago and they all still work great. We ran the vertical boards against the door frames and in the corners first, then the top and bottom horizontal boards (we used a wider baseboard), then the verticals (between the top and bottom), then the boards in between the verticals.

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First round of caulk and paint.

We did quarter round to cap the wainscoting and a white quarterround to finish it out against the flooring, also.

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Board and batten grid on the long wall.

I apologize for the grainy photos (these are pre-blogging days and were on my phone). You can see the grid before we started the finish work. Above, the first layer of crown molding has gone up.

Finishing Touches, Crown Molding, and Engineered Brazilian Hardwood Flooring

The additional white quarter round against the flooring really set off the deep color in the gorgeous engineered Brazilian Cherry Hardwood. I absolutely love the contrast of white against wood.

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This shot shows the second detail layer below the crown and how the wainscoting looked. This is not a crown molding installation how-to. There’s a fantastic tutorial available from the Familyhandyman.com if you’re new at this. Rainman’s tool of choice on this (that we’ve used over and over) is The Dewalt Compound Sliding Miter Saw. We’ve used it to do an entire house of molding (at the old house) and it still does EVERYTHING we need at the new house.

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So, this is an awful, grainy photo again. But, it shows how we continued the trim against the builtins. The top of the builtins was open. We capped the builtins with crown (so it continued around the room) and the detail piece tied it in beautifully.

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Two pieces of molding really add depth to the ceiling.

Here’s the final crown stack up, with only two pieces.

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Crown molding stack-up.

And them labelled, for guidance.

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The finish work was time intensive once all of the crown and wainscoting was up. All of the molding took two layers of caulk (around every edge of the grid and to fill nail holes) to really be finished and THREE layers of gloss white paint. But, it turned out beautifully.

The Finished Product

Beautiful new ceiling, builtins, fireplace, tile surround, new brazilian cherry engineered wood, wainscoting, and crown molding.

This was one of the listing photos of the living room. The white wainscoting and molding REALLY punch up the color contrast and finish the room beautifully. See the finished Old House Tour for more great makeovers.

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Taking A Stand On Fake Book Decor

Okay.  I briefly considered titling this blog post, “the death of all that is good and Holy,” or “things that make you want to start drinking before 5 PM.” But, I thought it might isolate some readers. This isn’t something I would normally do, but I feel the need to take a stand AGAINST a trend. I started seeing things pop up on my Pinterest feed with books in bookcases BACKWARD.  “What in the world?” I thought to myself.  So, I looked it up.

Books turned around backward for preferable “style” in Atlanta Homes Magazine

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It turns out, if people’s books don’t match their decor, or the book jackets are too colorful, PEOPLE ARE TURNING THEM AROUND TO MAKE THEM LOOK NICER.  And people are like, “yeah, that’s so AWESOME, what a great idea.” I’m going to stop right now.  I’m taking a deep breath. I’m going to my happy place.

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I’m finding tutorials on how to turn YOUR books around and tales of designers conquering their client’s ugly book collections by doing so.

This one from houseofpictures.com is especially stark.

Let me take a step back. I understand the need to have a nicely styled bookcase.  I GET IT. My bookshelves in common areas are grouped in muted color families and they look fantastic (if I do say so myself). I have some really NEAT books. I have collected them over the years. I have a true vintage/antique book collection. I love it when people ask me about them or where I picked them up. I’m proud of my collection. We might be the only freaks left in the country with bookcases that hold real, actual books.

Please excuse the unfinished bookshelves.

But, I have to be honest: it actually makes me ANGRY to see books reduced to shelf decor.  I see ads everywhere all of the sudden for FAKE BOOK SETS. Yes, I said FAKE BOOK SETS. Restoration Hardware (which I normally love) has entire collections of blank-paged books which you can get for the bargain price of hundreds of dollars. Are you freaking kidding me? Books filled with blank pages. That people buy.  To look like they have real books. This feels really, really fraudulent. WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE? ARE THEY WALKING AMONG US?

Hello, pretty, muted blue collection.

Can you imagine going to a friend’s house and seeing your favorite book on a shelf only to find it’s empty? As you pick it up and open it, you exclaim, “I had no idea you were a Jane Austen fan! I just love her, don’t you?… What the…” The pensive, confused, awkward silence that followed would be embarrassing for everyone involved.

Look, in the event you absolutely have to have some “book decor,” I have an idea: Go to a damn used bookstore and pick out some books! You don’t even have to read them, just pick out titles that seem interesting to you. That way, in case of apocalypse, or GOD FORBID the wi-fi goes down, you can leaf through something interesting. Used books are WAY cheaper than buying these ridiculous blank page book sets and they inspire far less anger in people like me. I know I’m responsible for my own emotional stability, but for the love of all that is holy, have a heart.

Carefully selected titles, in a warm rhinoceros sandwich.

How in the world are people supposed to judge you by your books if they’re backward in your bookcase? How are they supposed to know what kind of person you are if they can’t see your carefully selected and displayed titles?

What if they opened one of your books and found the pages blank?

Don’t let your visitors find out that you’re 1) Intellectually void or 2) As empty and soul-less as the blank books masquerading on your shelves.

Real, actual books.

I’m being a little cheeky here, but, seriously… It makes me sad.  I was a bookworm as a kid and I’ll admit I’d probably be bingewatching netflix on my smartphone like every other teenager if I were young today.  But, it makes me sad.  It makes me scared for our future as a society if books are just something we dress builtins with and dust once a week.

Please, please don’t do it.

Isn’t this the coolest? Also, real, actual books.

If I may, and you’re feeling REALLY uncreative, here are some options that won’t make your Academic-Snob friends cringe quite so much:

But seriously, you really should take an afternoon, find a book shop and pick out some neat books. Smell the dust. Take your kids’ smartphones away and drag them with you! Experience the thrill of the hunt! The satisfaction of the kill! Get out. Discover. Explore. Read. I highly recommend it.

Aaaaaaaand, I’m off my soapbox.

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Mastering the Scene: Demijohn And Classic Black, Round Mirror

What the heck is a demijohn anyway? Well, it’s a big bottle. It’s the old version of our current jug- used to transport oils, wine, etc. In its “natural” form it often has a wicker encasing. It’s thought to possibly be a corruption of the French word dame-jeanne… but whatever they are AWESOME. They are a perfect foundation piece to style around for lots of different holidays.

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I’ve been dying to get one of these for a while but didn’t want to get a knock off with a seam down the side (that’s how you can tell the real deal from the reproductions). I ended up ordering one from pottery barn (here’s a link) when they had a good sale and free shipping (you can find good ones on Etsy, but the shipping almost doubles the price). It’s hard to give up the control, but you don’t get to choose your color, just the relative size.

I recently found another similar Demijohn from Amazon, recycled, with no seams. It’s pretty awesome, too, and about $50 less.

This beauty was clear (I was sort of hoping for a colored one but it’s really gorgeous) with some bubbles seeded in the glass. Very nice. Absolutely authentic. I think it is cool they tell you where it comes from. Mine was from 1950s Hungary.

Large Demijohn from Pottery Barn, 1950s Hungary

I currently have a Spring/Summer scene styled with cherry blossoms and a burlap runner.

The cherry blossoms are silk (the curse of having cats, everything real is poisonous to them), but the pricier ones are quite passable. You can get them here from Amazon. I have a set of these pink ones, also.

You can see the nice detail on the silk blossoms here.

The burlap runner, which had to be hemmed, I purchased here. It came with three (which I have on my piano and other entry table).

The mirror I got from Hobby Lobby on sale (just google a coupon). You can buy it here. I really wanted to check it out in person because I didn’t want one that felt cheap or like rubber/plastic. These run REALLY pricey from RH or Pottery Barn and I don’t have an extra grand to drop on a mirror. Just be patient, they often have 40 or 50% off at Hobby Lobby.

The lantern is from Pottery Barn and can be purchased here. They are nice and solid (I’ve had that lantern for years). The Stress Relief candle is my FAVORITE from Bath & Bodyworks, available here from Amazon.

Thanks for checking out one of our awesome decor scenes. Read more about our home project wins and fails here.

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